For the Ladies

DO

Listen attentively, but don't express much opinion.

Do let men initiate and sustain the conversation.

Do laugh if men seem to be making a joke, no matter how humorous it may be.

DON'T

Lie with him right away--preserve your chastity!

Question a man's intentions or beliefs.

Reveal that you are overly enthusiastic about further meetings with him--play hard to get and he will follow.

 

For the Gentlemen

DO

Be aggressive.

Control conversation

Respect a woman's virtue.

DON'T

Be discouraged by passive interest.

Talk about any insecurities or hardships.

Stutter, stammer, slouch, fidget, fumble or finger your lapels.